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Is your Teen ready for High School?
I'm on Parent Council at my son's Junior Hight School. The other day we had a meeting where the High School Principal came to answer...

Daelene Byam
May 28, 20211 min read
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Fail to Win
My brother-in-law has been playing a video game and he has gotten stuck on one level. He has failed and died so many times on the game....

Daelene Byam
May 21, 20211 min read
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Anxiously Planning on Anxiety.
Anxiety often develops because of the unknown. There is so much that we don't know about the future that can cause you Anxiety. When you...

Daelene Byam
Apr 29, 20211 min read
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How to Overcome any Obstacle
Obstacles are one of my favorite things to work on with my clients. For every Obstacle we set up a Strategy. It seems to help with so...

Daelene Byam
Apr 22, 20211 min read
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Anxiety is not always the Problem
Anxiety is what is called in the coaching world a "Secondary Emotion". We always feel another negative emotion first that builds up into...

Daelene Byam
Apr 15, 20211 min read
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Stop Running Away.
Back in the primitive age to stay alive we had to use the fight of flight mentality. If you didn't you would die. Literally. You could...

Daelene Byam
Apr 8, 20212 min read
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Swing High and Swing Low
At the beginning of all my sessions, I start with a couple of questions for my teen clients. What was your High of the week? What was...

Daelene Byam
Apr 1, 20212 min read
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Anxious about Anxiety
As a parent with a child with Anxiety it was so easy to mirror that emotion. His anxiety would give me anxiety. I didn't even have...

Daelene Byam
Mar 25, 20211 min read
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Looking for Evidence.
If you are looking for something you will always find it. I see this with my clients every day. They are looking for evidence that they...

Daelene Byam
Mar 18, 20211 min read
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Self Doubt
Self Doubt is when we don’t have confidence in our self. We start to not have our own back. We start to think we can’t do something. The...

Daelene Byam
Mar 11, 20211 min read
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What is a Confident Person?
Teens are very confused about what is a confident person. They feel like a "bully" is someone who is confident. Someone who is mean to...

Daelene Byam
Mar 4, 20211 min read
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Will this Matter in 5 Years?
When one of my clients is worrying about something in the future or something that is about to happen, I like to ask them, “Is this going...

Daelene Byam
Feb 25, 20212 min read
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Is your Teen Feeling Blue?
I know I am. One of my clients asked me the other day why she was feeling blue. She was feeling worried about feeling a little blue. What...

Daelene Byam
Feb 18, 20211 min read
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Crooked Arms and Tropical Diseases.
Last week I shared a picture of my boys. I am sure from that picture it looks like we have all these amazing boys who have it all...

Daelene Byam
Feb 11, 20211 min read
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That Teenage Brain
These are my cute boys! Ages 24-15 Yrs Old. Want to know something interesting? Not one of them has a fully developed brain yet. Our...

Daelene Byam
Feb 4, 20212 min read
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I discovered how best to help my Anxiety Teen.
I know how you as a parent feel when you want to help your teen so much when they are struggling. I know what it feels like to be...

Daelene Byam
Jan 28, 20212 min read
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Curiosity Does Not Kill the Cat!
Try being Curious about why your teenager is acting a certain way. Of course this is how my teenager is behaving. This is a sentence I...

Daelene Byam
Jan 21, 20212 min read
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Is Your Teen Futured Focused?
Is your Teen Future Focused? A lot of teens are just living in the here and now. This is totally normal and there is nothing wrong with...

Daelene Byam
Jan 14, 20212 min read
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What is the Worst thing that can Happen?
I know a lot of people tell us to stop thinking about what is the worst thing that can happen. We tell our kids to do the same thing. ...

Daelene Byam
Jan 8, 20212 min read
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Are You Choosing to have a Good 2021?
The year 2020 to most of us been a tough year. I think we are all hoping that 2021 will be better year. The thing is though we can choose...

Daelene Byam
Dec 31, 20201 min read
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