I just wanted to share with you a couple of experiences I had in the last couple of weeks with people. Now the first one was in the parking lot at the mall. I was with my girl friend and we were walking back to our car from shopping. We saw this lady in her car and we could just tell from a good distance away that she was grouchy and not in a good mood. She was unhappy. She was miserable. Our interaction with her in the parking lot was her trying to exude her misery on us. Lucky for me and my girlfriend we were not miserable. We were having a good time and enjoying ourselves. We were actually in a really good mood. We were just enjoying our time together. After our interaction with this lady we just laughed the whole thing off. We thought it was hilarious how someone could be so grouchy. But anyone else who may have interacted with her while she was at the mall may not have been able to do that. Maybe they were having a hard day or having trouble or any clerks who were stressed because of the business of the day at the mall. All those poor young clerks who are just doing their best to work at a job they may not love and having to interact with a grouchy lady. She was putting off negative vibes and negative feelings. You could see it within her without even speaking to us with her words. She may have spoken with her hand gestures. Now my second experience with a person this week was when I went for dinner with a bunch of couples and the girlfriend who sat next to me. She was so lovely and so complimentary to everyone. Everybody she spoke to or talked about. She had such positive things to say. Such lovely things. She complimented me and everyone else around her all night long. She just expressed such positivity that I left feeling so good about myself. So after I had this experience with these two different people, I just thought, which do you want to be? Which person do you want to be when you go out into the world? Do you want to be that person who is expressing positivity or negativity? Because truly the way that you are acting while be the people that are drawn to you. I do try and be a positive person and so was therefor drawn to my positive girlfriend, who is being a positive person. I want to spend more time with her. I want to express my positivity with her. The other lady, I wanted nothing to do with her. I wanted to get away from her as fast as I could. I don't want to indulge in that. So what do you want to be? Do you want to be that person that's attracting positivity or negativity? As we go out into the world, think about that. Which do you want to be? I want to be the person who is bringing in more positive people into my group of people, because those, I hope are my people. You need to decide who are your people? However you are acting or whatever you are doing, those are the type of people that will be drawn to you and those are your people. If you have a teenager or young adult in your life who needs to learn more about being positive or learn about anxiety, click the button at the bottom of the page to book a free mini session.
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